Sample Test - BDSM01

1. What is BDsM?

Bondage Domination Discipline submission sadism masochism. It is a term used for a wide variety of kinks and "not normal" lifestyles. Most people enjoy some of the kinks but do not think of themselves as BDsM people.

2. What is the major prinicple of BDSM (all the different kinks will have this in common)?

Only the following are acceptable - Control OR Power Exchange

3. What is a Dominant?

One that receives pleasure from having control or has a need to be in control

4. What is a submissive?

one that receives pleasure in serving Dominates

5. What does the term 'vanilla' mean in BDSM?

one that does not believe in the Control/Power Exchange concept of BDSM

6. What is the difference between Dom Master Top?

Dom needs control in all aspects of their life, Master owns submissives, Top only dominates in sex.

7. What is the difference between submissive slave bottom?

submissive has limits, slave gives all control to their Dom, bottom is only submissive during sex.

8. What are limits?

things a submissive won’t do.

9. Can limits change and if so, when?

limits can change based on partner, experience and scenario

10. What is the difference between Hard and Soft Limits?

Hard limits are firm do nots. Soft limits may change depending on the Dom or situation

11. What is a safe word?

word that is said by a submissive to stop the scene, task, action.

12. When is a safe word used?

used when the submissive feels unsafe or bad about something.

13. What is SSC?

safe sane consentual. Even though BDSM is about Control, it is still Rape when one is completely unwilling and not playing. Also unsafe, unexpected and bad things can occur due to some types of play. Things should be talked about and thought though before hand for some types of play.

14. What is RACK?

Risk Aware Conscential Kink. Similar to SSC. The act may not be 'safe' but the Risks are known and thought about prior to doing to minimize potential harm or bad outcome. Example - hooding, gagging, suspention bondage, knife play, needle play, fire play .. there are more.

15. What is punishment and why is it important?

Punishment is given when a submissive breaks rules or expectations. It is to train, correct, teach and break bad habits. It is done out of love and caring for the submissive to make them as the Master wants. Punishment should not be given if the submissive has not been trained or instructed.

16. How is punishment different than a scene or play?

Scening/Play is for pleasure and fun. Punishment is to teach and correct. The submissive should understand they are being punished and what for.

17. What is a sadist?

One that receives pleasure from invoking pain in others

18. What is a masocist?

one that receives pleasure from pain.

19. Is a sub a masochist?

no. a sub can be, but doesn't have to be. A sub may accept pain to pleasure their Master even though they do not like it.

20. What is a SAM?

smart assed masochists. These typically cause trouble to be punished to receive the pain they need/want.

21. What is topping from the bottom?

when a bottom who purports to be a submissive directs and tells the Top what to do so she receives pleasure how she wants.

22. What is the story of o about in 1 word?

Objectification

23. What are girls taught?

To sever and please men however the man wants

24. Summarize the story of o?

O is the girl, a beautiful fashion photographer. Rene is her boyfriend/lover. Rene brings her to the Chateau de Roissy to train her as an pleasure object for men. O submits to prove her love to Rene. Rene gives O away. O continues as its what she know nows as her life.